Weekend:
Full of family on Saturday (Mom's birthday celebration in Comfort, Tx) and then house fixin' up on Sunday. I'm wiped out!
My aunt and uncle from San Antonio were there, full of their usual wry and unusual humor. My aunt had a tangle with cancer this year, which Chemo seemed to take care of. She has a very realistic wig! After cake, my uncle came over to chat with my sister-in-law. I overheard the following conversation:
Uncle Jack: "Sara, are you wearing a wig?"
Sara (laughing incredulously): "no..."
Jack: "It looks like one!"
Sara: "No, this is my real hair"
Jack: " It looks just like Moppy's" (side note: my aunt is called Moppy)
Sara: "I
wish I had a wig!"
He walked away and I leaned over to Sara and said, "I can't WAIT to report back to Mike that Jack asked you if your hair is a wig!". My sister in law can have a wicked sense of humor, so she took this odd exchange in stride and knew it was good for inappropriate-relative story telling!
My aunt Moppy (whose real name is Sydney Margaret- a name mangled by by her nieces and nephews until it became "Moppy"), and uncle Jack gave my mom a pretty, antique pitcher. She told a long story of it's history and then told my Mom to look inside- she had put a small, school portrait of my Dad when he was 14! After much discussion of the pitcher and picture, the gift was passed around for all to see. Jack took it and asked, "Who gave you this?". Moppy, sitting next to him, turns and says, in her thick Tennessee drawl, "
Wheeeeee did!". Jack must have been in his own zone for the previous 15 minutes. I think that happens easily when a lot of family gather!
My uncle Alan, who I rarely see, was there with his wife Xuan (can't remember the spelling, but it's pronounced Swan). Xuan was cheerful, alert to every nuance of any conversation going on in a 10 foot radius of her, and brought a sense of real joy to the occasion. I think she's just one of those types- the personality who brightens a room no matter who is around her.
Alan had bought a purse from me about a year 1/2 ago at a festival I did in San Antonio. I remember it having a really nice print of Buddha on it. Xuan told me, yesterday, what happened to the purse. She and her family helped raise money here in the States to send back to one of the poorest temples in their community in Vietnam. She told me she packed the gift in the purse and that they had a large celebration and ceremony accepting the gift. Then she mentioned that the purse will remain in the temple for very long time. I was really touched by the story and (of course), couldn't help feel a little twinge of Indiana Jones coming out... my purse, stored away in an Ancient Vietnamese temple, found by archaeologists 1,000 years from now!
So that was Saturday.
On Sunday a nice man named Guillermo, who happens to be the maintenance guy at my boyfriend's apartment complex, came over to assess the many, many things breaking down around my house. He was no-nonsense. He was awesome. In a matter of about 2 1/2 hours, he installed 2 new shower heads, tinkered with a fussy toilet, unclogged a drain, installed a new kitchen faucet (twice- the first one was defective and I had to run it back to Home Depot), and fixed my dishwasher.
I'm beside myself with excitement that my dishwasher seems to be working again! It's a miracle!!! I've lived in my house about 10 years now. The dishwasher worked for the first 3. One day is just stopped. I Googled some manual on how to fix it (that was back when I was super a fixer-upper) and took part of the machine apart. I have zero recollection of what I did, but I know I stopped when things started to look electrical. No thank you, I don't want to die by being fried by my dishwasher. So I screwed everything back up, shut it and decided that one day I would have it fixed. That was 7 years ago. Since then I've been hand washing my dishes. This wasn't so bad for several years since I ate out a lot, ate junk food that didn't require any preparation, and basically never ever cooked. Not a lot of dishes were used. But since The Big Sugar Kick, I've started preparing a lot more food and using tons of dishes. I despise hand washing dishes.
To make it worse, my kitchen sink stopped working, but the sprayer still worked. So I've been washing dishes with my kitchen sink sprayer! Argh!!
Terrible!Guillermo replaced the faucet and now I have a functioning sink, but now I have the luxury of a dishwasher too! He said, "The water wasn't connected, that's why it wasn't working". uh. Huh? I know I was not savvy enough to disconnect the water so I asked him, "Is it possible it shook loose? Disconnected on it's own?" I don't think he fully understood because he just said, "It was disconnected!". ha. But then he said, "Oh, and make sure you always have
this switch turned on" flipping the third switch in the row of switches by my sink.
Ohhhhh....
that's what that switch is for! I feel like a total dufus! I have a sneaking suspicion that 7 years ago I accidentally switched that switch off and had no idea it was cutting the power off to the dishwasher. It was never broken, it was just turned off.
SEVEN YEARS.
Of hand washing dishes.
A switch was turned off.
I had to laugh.